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Power of Attorney Basics

A power of attorney lets someone act for you if you cannot. Choosing and documenting it carefully matters.

Step by step

  1. Learn the types.
  2. Choose someone you trust.
  3. Talk with them.
  4. See an attorney.
  5. Keep copies.

What to expect

Expect explanations of financial versus healthcare authority, when each takes effect and why successors matter. AI can list the conversations to have with the person you choose.

Mistakes to avoid

Do not pick someone only because they are the oldest child. Pick someone organized and trustworthy. Avoid generic online forms that your state or bank may not accept.

A good next step

Ask your bank whether it has its own form it prefers, then see an attorney.

A prompt you can copy

Type this into ChatGPT, Claude or Gemini

Explain what a durable power of attorney and a healthcare proxy are in plain language, and list questions to ask an attorney.

Good to know. Rules differ by state. This is general information, not legal advice.

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Common questions

Can I use a form from the internet?

Some states have approved forms, but get advice.

Who should hold copies?

Your agent, attorney and family.

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